Apologies, my comment was a joke about Darwin's observation that women were disinterested in sex.

Ha. I insinuated Darwin's wife never had an orgasm. I'm kidding and don't know much about his personal life, but I assume he was attentive and caring. He observed nature and humanity to understand and provide insight about our existence. An external focus is a unique trait.

I rather be a homemaker than deal with the daily work grind that steals your soul, but my partner might expect me to take over the cooking and grocery shopping chores. Hmm, it's worth it. I would spend my days gardening, chatting with my older neighbors, playing with my dogs, and never stressing about work BS. What a dream! Ha ;)